Category: Marriage

 
what is purpose of marriage (non-religious)

Is the Purpose of Marriage Just Safety and Connection?

Three relationship experts share their findings about the purpose of marriage for strength, safety and belonging.

Drs. John Gottman, Sue Johnson, and Stan Tatkin have studied how relationships impact each partner’s sense of wellbeing. They identified traits of healthy relationships and the struggles or weaknesses of troubled marriages in their research. Here’s what each might say on the purpose of marriage (non-religious):

Dr. John Gottman: Marriage is where partners learn to build a rich climate of friendship, love, respect, and meaning.

Dr. John Gottman once told a crowd: “For a relationship to feel right, it has to be a very rich climate of affection and humor and fun and intimacy and empathy.”

That doesn’t mean you should avoid talking about what’s not working.

Being happily married isn’t about denying problems.  That’s not even possible. 

It surprises many to learn, most issues married couples argue about aren’t solvable. Even in happy marriages about 2/3 (69%) of problems don’t go away. They keep showing up in one form or another.

But partners who stay happy make sure … Come Read the Rest